Pretty good -- both the original video (which is, at least, well-intentioned and earnest, with not-entirely-bad ideas) and the commentary. I do agree that, to avoid becoming a distraction herself (and to avoid any misunderstandings during that office-hours visit), another layer of clothing, or at least another button buttoned, might be a good idea. Yes, she has every right to wear what she chooses, when and where she chooses, and others are fully responsible for their own reactions/behavior, but it's sort of like the Axe body spray -- it's only polite not to deliberately overwhelm others' senses when it can be easily avoided.
Good advice, but I can't get over the button thing. What is it? Is it a flower thingie? Crochet thingie? Did she misbutton her shirt? I'm distracted by that.
It's a matter of not being distracting. I try not to wear tight t-shirts, either, not because I'm sexy, but because covering the sagging folds of flesh makes me less of a distraction.
I find cleavage distressingly less distracting these days than I used to, but a nubile young thing spilling out of a too-small shirt is still an attention magnet.
Pretty good -- both the original video (which is, at least, well-intentioned and earnest, with not-entirely-bad ideas) and the commentary. I do agree that, to avoid becoming a distraction herself (and to avoid any misunderstandings during that office-hours visit), another layer of clothing, or at least another button buttoned, might be a good idea. Yes, she has every right to wear what she chooses, when and where she chooses, and others are fully responsible for their own reactions/behavior, but it's sort of like the Axe body spray -- it's only polite not to deliberately overwhelm others' senses when it can be easily avoided.
ReplyDeleteI agree. The advice was actually pretty good, and the comments were funny...
ReplyDeleteYeah that was my impression too. I wouldn't mind having her in my class, actually.
ReplyDeleteGood advice, but I can't get over the button thing. What is it? Is it a flower thingie? Crochet thingie? Did she misbutton her shirt? I'm distracted by that.
ReplyDeleteIt's okay to act, be, dress sexy, is it not? I hope so, because as a somewhat dumpy, but still randy college proffie, I like to, too!
ReplyDeleteShe looks great in the video, but she could go easy on the hair flip!
See Cassandra's comment, above.
DeleteIt's a matter of not being distracting. I try not to wear tight t-shirts, either, not because I'm sexy, but because covering the sagging folds of flesh makes me less of a distraction.
I find cleavage distressingly less distracting these days than I used to, but a nubile young thing spilling out of a too-small shirt is still an attention magnet.
If being sexy were a crime, they,d have put me away.
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The last 30 seconds' worth of comments made me snort with laughter. Cal, you've got competition!
ReplyDeleteOMG, she's my daughter by my Chinese girlfriend from grad school.
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